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"We
Must Return The Money. It's Not Ours."
By
Dedette Sison-Santiago
(Upon
learning of the remarkable act of honesty of
Cristina Bugayong, we asked the Filipinas editorial
coordinator in Manila, Dedette Santiago, to
interview her and her mother. We also decided
to feature her on the cover of the February
issue as a testament to our hope in the future
of the Philippines. The interview has been translated
from the original Tagalog.)
Cristina
or Tinay, 12 years old, is the sixth in a brood
of eight. Her father Cesar, 43, is jobless.
"Pa-extra-extra
bilang tubero at electrician," (He works
odd jobs as a plumber and electrician) says
Tinay's mother, Aling Luzviminda, 45.
Aling
Luzviminda works as a helper in a canteen that
delivers food to different offices, earns P2,000
a month and works five days a week.
"Naglalabada
ako kapag Sabado, pahinga sa Linggo." (I
wash clothes on Saturday and rest on Sunday.)
The
Bugayongs live in a compound along Gener street
in Quezon City, owned by her husband's family.
By my estimate, their shanty measures 3x4 meters,
with hardly any furniture. The TV set was bought
about five years ago when Mang Gener (an uncle)
was working as a seaman. The space serves as
the children's bedroom at night (five children
sleep there; two are married and one of them
often sleeps in a neighbor's house). It serves
as a sala during the day. A makeshift bedroom
for the couple is located in the rear.
DS:
What happened that night when you picked up
the money? Where did you see it?
Cristina:
My friend Cherry Ann and I were outside at around
7:20 in the evening telling stories. Then someone
on a motorcycle passed by and I noticed something
fall. We saw that it was money. We tried to
go after the person, but he sped away and we
could not see his face.
Luzviminda:
Tinay came into the house and told me that a
man dropped the money but she did not know who
he was. She wanted to return the money immediately
because it was not ours.
DS:
How much do you think was the amount that Tinay
picked up?
Luzviminda: A lot. More than P300,000 as counted
by her Uncle Leclec. We brought it to Auntie
Gigi. Then we went to the office of Happy Valley
because that was what was written on the checks.
We also went to my employer and she called up
the media. She first called GMA 7 in order to
make an announcement on the air. This was only
announced the following day in "Unang Hirit"
(a GMA newscast), but that night they took pictures
of the money to prove that it had been found.
DS:
How did you feel when Tinay arrived with the
money?
Luzviminda:
We were surprised and frankly it was tempting.
I held it and fanned myself with it. I thought
of not returning it, but Tinay was firm in saying,
"No, Nanay, we must return the money. It's
not ours. Pity the owner." I really thought
about it but I would not have been able to do
it because I'm afraid of karma. It was important
to return the money.
DS:
Have you experienced karma?
Luzviminda:
No, but it is said that it is bad if you suffer
karma. I'm afraid something might happen to
me. Another thing, I also thought, "What
about the person who lost the money that was
not his and he's only a worker?"And that,
in fact, was the case. We learned that the messenger
who lost the money didn't know how to tell his
employer what had happened. He could not sleep
the whole night wondering how to find the lost
checks and cash.
DS:
Tinay, why are you so honest? Was this taught
to you by your parents?
Cristina:
Not really, but in school we are taught good
manners and right conduct, to be honest and
to respect our elders.
DS:
Tell us what you do every day.
Cristina:
I wake up at five in the morning when I have
classes because I have the keys to our classroom.
I open it every morning. Even without an allowance,
I go to school. I bring snacks to the classrooms
from the canteen and leave them with the teachers.
One o'clock is when we go home. I bring my things
home then go back to school to deliver the snacks
for the afternoon classes. There are ten classrooms.
Luzviminda:
Often, when she comes home, she has already
had lunch because they feed her at the canteen.
Sometimes she brings home spaghetti. So her
food is free.
DS:
What do you like to do, Tinay?
Cristina:
I like to play badminton and ride a bike. (She
borrows her friend's bike).
Luzviminda:
She is hardworking. She does chores in the house.
She is also hardheaded sometimes. When I ask
her to do something, she says she'll do it later,
and then she runs out to play. Tinay is a little
slow in the head. She has difficulty with the
English subject. At times, I tell her to stop
studying and just help me. She may not be able
to cope with school work in the later years.
But she says, "No, Nanay, I will study.
I will find a way to be able to study."
Now, with God's help, I no longer have a problem
because she has been given a scholarship by
Southern Technical Institute (STI).
DS:
Nanay, can you tell us about your daily life?
How you do make ends meet?
Luzviminda: Sometimes we only eat twice a day.
We're lucky if we eat three times and we're
lucky if we are able to buy a piece of chicken
neck. Most of the time we eat eggs and sardines.
But our relatives are good to us because when
they hear that the children have nothing to
eat, they give us food.
Dedette
Sison-Santiago is Filipinas' editorial coordinator
in Manila.
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